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Monday, July 19th, 2010

Kelp Helps

It may have been because I’ve been over thinking everything…or that I’m at a major crossroads in my life. Either way, last weekend at Alki beach, the kelp talked to me.

We were spending our family day in the sunshine, exploring a new part of town. Although the full lunch told us to go home and sleep, the beach song called us to the shore. Rhissa promptly pulled up a spot to lie down, Ryan and Jaime cuddled for warmth while taking in the. cityscape, and mom and I stared at a jumble of kelp floating on the surface of the water.

After several minutes of sitting and watching this clump of kelp I started to hear it’s journey and the parallels it made in my life.

Kelp grows up in a world that isn’t the most stable. They don’t move to better climates, they make the best of their surroundings and “go with the flow.” The kelp spend a good portion of their life sheltering smaller fish and providing nutritients to the ocean. At some point, the kelp are removed from their stable existence and tossed into the great wide ocean. They are required to go in the direction the wave takes them.

Like kelp, my environment has not been the most stable. But what we lacked in stability, we gained in compassion and love, just like the kelp. At graduation I was up rooted and sent in the direction the waves were headed, college. Since then I’ve been a drift, at the mercy of the winds.

My path will change as the season in my life change. Eventually I will anchor again, and my life will be grounded and swaying in the current.

Until then, “anyway the wind blows.”

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Wednesday, June 30th, 2010

Are fight or flight my ONLY options?

 

Overtime I’ve aquired fears for the following things:

Birds- because they can attack your face and you can’t always see them coming. 

Clowns (and chainsaws)- because of an extensive haunted house marathon in college.

Heights- this is MOST recent.  I hadn’t realized I was THIS terrified until I found myself screaming uncontrollably on a FERRIS WHEEL.

In any of the above cases I’d prefer not to fight.  That would require me to stay present in the situation and if you think I’m going to stick around and duke it out with a clown, forget about it!  However, I’d also prefer not to flee (flight).  Running from a clown only makes them chase you more, and TRYING to run from a bird is almost impossible.  They FLY!

I propose another option, GLITTER!!  I believe that if I carry a small vile of glitter at all times I will not be afraid.  If approached by a clown, I can throw glitter in his face.  To me, the glitter will make him less imposing.  He becomes “fairy-like.”  If I throw glitter at a bird, they will likely fly away as projectiles hurling at them, no matter the size, will distract from any ideas of attack on my face.. 

I’m still working out the kinks on the effectiveness of glitter on height.  But I believe, if I put glitter on near to anything, it instantly becomes prettier, and more acceptable to my psyche.

What are YOUR fears??

Be Yourself.  Everyone else is TAKEN. :)

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Tuesday, April 28th, 2009

Living through life

While in vanpool thing morning I realized something…. I’m ALIVE!  With the most recent scare of the “Swine Flu,” it is apparent that we shouldn’t be afraid of monsters, spiders, or even *shudder* clowns.  It’s LIFE that we are defending ourselves against. 

On a typical day:

Finally get to sleep the night before around 12 or 1 am, wake up at 6am.  Five or six hours of sleep can put you at risk for several health issues  including memory loss, diabetes (from your body not able to process sugar properly because of a weakened metabolism), and even depression.

Rushing to vanpool that leaves at 7am.  The effects of driving half awake are obvious.  Shorter reaction time to lights or sudden stops, and on most days the morning fog has not yet lifted and you are driving in 20 feet visibility.  Lately, driving to vanpool means driving east AGAINST the sun rise.  Glare is never helpful.

Riding in vanpool with eleven other people.  Several riders have children or pets.  Children, especially ones in daycare, are often the most common vessels of a cold.  Being in such close proximity with this many people over a half hour commute puts you in a more vulnerable position to contract a virus.

Also while riding in vanpool, if you have trouble sitting still for an extended amount of time, you decide to connect to the internet or play games on your cell phone.  This means that you are staring at a small screen for roughly an hour of your day, voluntarily.  This will effect the planes in your eyes, and will throw off the focus of the cornea.  Regular astigmatism is a side effect of this behavior.

Once arriving at work, if you work in an office setting, you spend 7 hours staring at a computer screen (astigmatism, myopia, etc).  Many office buildings recycle the air…so someone in the department across the hall chose to come to work because their cold was “just starting” and it can almost be guaranteed that you contract the cold within the next couple weeks.

LUNCH: Most people do not take the time to make themselves a “healthy” meal for lunch during the week.  It is much more convenient to stop by your company deli, or the nearest fast food stop for a quick meal.  By making convenient and not necessarily “smart” choices you are now at risk for obesity and diabetes.

Throughout the day your job will require you to make tough decisions, and use parts of your brain that may not often be excercised.  Involuntarily, you are now susceptable to stress, migraines, and even thoughts of suicide (I’ve worked in a call center setting…it’s TOTALLY possible). 

After the 5 o’clock bell rings and you ride the possibly viral vanpool home, you are presented with all new hurdles.  Upon arriving home you check the mailbox for new correspondence.  This could lead to receiving an anonymous letter with SARS, or just receiving bills that are added stress.

After dinner, while watching the news you are presented with unfortunate stories of people that have not been as fortunate as you on this day.  Ones who have been mercilessly slaughtered, raped and killed, or even mindlessly killed in a car crash.

Overall… living through life ain’t easy.  If at the end of the day you find yourself in good health, and finding ONE thing to smile about, then personally I think you are coming out on top.  Never take a day for granted because the next is a WHOLE nother battle!

Till next time….

Be yourself!  Everyone else is taken. :)

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